Guys think girls have it easy… all we have to do is go up to a guy and initiate S.E.X. ??? There is nothin’ EASY about this… especially if a female is not easy. I’m tired of my friends being bitches to me because they aren’t getting any. (LMFAO) People have differing opinions about females approaching men when it comes to getting their number and going on dates… but what about bootycalls? fem-fATL wants to know… Can a woman be more forthcoming? OR Would it be a complete turn off if a woman intiated the booty?
That booty would pick up the phone and call you its damn self. lol
Typically females will think being forthcoming is out of their nature and that it will make them look like a “slut”. There probably is some truth to their thinking, however… there is a difference between being a complete slut and initiating the company of some one who you could possibly throw down with in the bed room. I personally don’t think anyone should hold back from owning what they want. Sometimes things don’t work out how you want them right away… but 100% of shots not taken, are 100% of shots missed. You don’t have to literally say “Wanna f*ck?!” for some one to come over and man-handle you… I think contact of any sort in the later hours to “hang out” or “chill” suggests the two of you hanging out in a setting that sexual intercourse could naturally happen. If it doesn’t happen right away… it definitely plants the seed. People just need to be honest at all times with what they want. If all a female wants is sex, then that is what her heart needs to want too. My big thing for women is to remind themselves that if they are going to initiate a booty call, they have to make sure they don’t have expectations after the fact. Those expectations are what create awkward situations between two people who just want to go about their regular lives and remain cool… until the next booty call. lol
So tell us… Can a woman be more forthcoming? OR Would it be a complete turn off if a woman intiated the booty?
I wish my ass looked like that!
Preach Just B, preach!!!! I think women can be more assertive with their “physical transactions”. As you stated, being a SLUT is a no no, but being assertive and letting a guy know that if they “hang out” after the club, fun times are more than likely going to ensue. I also agree that you can’t confuse “booty calls” with relationships. It’s NOT! It would probably be wise to not initiate a “physical transaction” with someone that is crushing on you, or you crushing on b/c it will just cause confusion. We are young, we should have fun, just remember to play it safe and wrap it up. =D
Personally it all depends on how the woman comes at the guy. If she comes at the dude and really wants to have sex with HIM, cool. We’re all adults, sex is something thats going to happen….but if a female is approaching a new guy every week or every month then yea, thats slut status haha. And women are the ones that decide whether or not sex is going to happen or not…unless the guy is just some Godly looking dude that has everything in the world going for him, and there arent many guys out there like that lol
Thanks guys!!! Both good advice for the ladies…
I think women should ask men the real deal. I won’t think less of a lady if she asks, she wants to anyway.
If women would start to feel more comfortable initiating the booty the world would be a better place. There’s nothing more sexy than a woman that goes for what she wants…
i think her ass looks kind of gross.
came for the picture stayed for the post…
I LOVE yall style of writing, but i think this article kind got out shined by her ass! lol
I think its cool if that’s what that girl wants at the given time from that person. I agree with Outbreak that one shouldn’t intiate it with someone who they’re really crushing on.
I think its totally possible for a women to have sex like a guy without deeper feelings. One must know themselves and what they want before they try to do that though. If you know you get attach to a person after you got your medicine then dont do it cause your little feelings will be crush.
Its easy for a girl to get laid if that’s all you want.I know i got some on call penis I can call if i want it..but currently i dont want it….but do be selective.Wear a condom!
Yes, that ass is huge! Wow!No homo!
Is that for real? DAMN!!! J.lo has nothing on her!