HEAD is one of those selfish guilty pleasures that males and females like to receive in their lifetime.  Its like the upgraded version of jacking off, the hands-free version. lol  All you gots to do is lay your head back and take your mind to internal porno flicks that you wish you had the balls to produce and make millions off of.  Even if the selfish moment of head is just a component of the total sexual experience, it definitely takes f*cking to a higher level. lol

Oral-B Sex... lol literally.

People have their own thresholds for who gets the mighty mouth… and that is completely fine.  Some people like to save their giving natures for those who mean something to them or someone who is trusted to be cleaner than a medical laboratory.  Others don’t see HEAD as something that needs to be attached to emotions and connections to whoever they sleep with so its not a big deal, but rather a pleasure point not to be ignored.  And then, there are those who swear up and down they would never ever give head.  fem-fATL wants to know why some GUYS don’t participate in the HEAD game!  Even girls would understand why not if her stuff smelt like caviar on top of gorilla poo, but other than that… the ladies would like to know.  Is our junk too confusing for you?

haha damn... I think he's stuck.

Sure, the condom covered penis feels great inside of the vaginal walls… but are those walls lubricated? Is she being stimulated?  Are you sure? lol  Females do fake their orgasms when necessary.  Some times it can get to the point where the sex is just about you and your penis that she might question whether she’s getting raped. lol  Something guys need to understand is that the entire sexual experience is what really feels good for a girl- the way you come on to her, the way you caress her, the way you kiss her, the way you show her that her body is a temple and you are just a peasant trying to get in. (lol Don’t know where that last part came from.)  She is not going to ejaculate the same way you do… her anatomy is much different.  Whether you are just effin’ someone, in a new relationship, or an older relationship, there is always a chance for you to reclaim your mojo with your partner.  If you make a girl feel good about herself… and of course, rock the boat… she will respond with a great come back.

lmao... I'm sure parents were freaking out about this one.

Now, let’s get back to the HEAD piece. lol  This is such an intimate gesture that shows your willingness to pleasure your partner.  Think about it, only YOU and her gynecologist have been this up close and personal with her “junk.”  If her gyno can stick a finger in it, you surely can take it one step further and taste it. lol Every girl is different in what they like and what feels good for them, so if you are new to head giving… don’t be scared.  You will get better with trial and error… and what girl doesn’t like to boss around a guy every once in a while?  She is no better than you if she can’t tell you what feels good.

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If you are trying to re-vamp your oral skills… try a couple of things:

 1) Turn off the lights! Everyone looks better in the dark. lol and if you’re scared of a little bit of P-juice, wipe it down with your hand to dry it up and wipe away anything that might make you gag. haha

2)  While you lickety split, listen to how she reacts.  If she breaks your neck, you are doing a great job. If you feel like you are licking a corpse, she’s bored and you should find out what makes her feel better. “Faster?” “Slower?” “Softer?” “Stronger?” and…

3) If you are going at it and want to ”wow” her… get back out and give her some more.  This will allow you to chill and extend the duration of your sexual experience.

Does that sound too HARD? lol  Now its your turn to let fem-fATL know whats up.  Oh… and please remember that abstinence is the key to STD and pregnancy prevention.  lol  But, if you must, wrap it before you tap it.  Guys & Girls, you can still give and receive STDs from giving and receiving oral sex.  For more info, check out Futurista’s safe sex post.

Stay tuned for “How to Give a Man Head.”  Taking all volunteers who are not camera shy.