Orkin Man
Whether you’re a guy or a girl… it is possible that you can be a “BUG.” Girls typically always take the cake on this whole “bug-a-boo” stuff, but so do GUYS! And what the hell do bugs do?? They bug the shit outta you. Think of a mosquito that incessantly flies around you no matter how many times you swat it. Once you bring out the bug spray, its game over. Don’t be a mosquito (or a girl, mosquitA…. And please refrain from naming your child that! LOL), or else your chances of taking a bite out of the prize will leave you starving. So, some of you male bug readers may be wondering, “What is too much and what is too little?!” The first question should be, “Is this person even interested in me?” Only when true interest is at stake are questions of too much and too little relevant. Here’s some advice from the female perspective. Take notes!
…..If you meet a fine honey at a Ruby Tuesday’s on a Friday night, (which is really lame by the way cuz you’re supposed to go on Tuesday), and she was sittin’ there still talking to you while u had some damn pepper in your teeth and she STILL gave you her number, she is interested. But, if you know your ass basically had this chick in a chokehold for her phone number, chances are your calls will get denied. Go ahead and call… ‘cause maybe she was just frontin’ infront of the girls, but if you get the voicemail and no call back, let it go!!!
- TOO MUCH would be if you are sittin’ there blowing up her phone, email box, and/or commenting on her facebook pics all day. For one, you must not be doing shit in life! You could actually be embarrassing the girl if you make comments in the public eye that suggest you two are dating. Don’t embarrass her or yourself! Two, females are like males in the sense that we also want challenges, so don’t make it too easy for us. Let it be known that if a girl is interested, she will get in touch and make time for you genuinely. The biggest NO NO is flaunting your money with gifts or expensive shit to impress her when she’s not getting in touch or making time for you. Don’t continue to send random ass texts about nothings when she’s ignoring you and to finalize this, don’t result in confessing that you miss her or saying some sarcastic shit like “you’re too good to talk to me.” Well, yea motherfcker, you are actin’ like a bitch. Lol Give her attention without being a “bitch” about it
- TOO LITTLE would be, for example, claiming that you are too busy to drop a text or a phone call but you’re clearly out with the boys at a club. Either let the girl know you aren’t interested (‘cause often times a girl gets mixed signals from you) or show the girl some interest. Don’t be afraid to speak the truth. Let the girl know if you are just friends, fckin’, or moving into the direction of a relationship. If you do this, you won’t have to worry about being too little of a bug. Don’t make a girl feel inadequate just because you don’t want to be an ass. You will be much more of an ass for dragging shit out and sending mixed signals. Chances are, she’ll be cool with whatever category you put her in and decide for her self if she’ll allow that. However, if you are interested and can’t call her everyday, that’s okay. Set the pace. Communicate with her every couple or triple of days until you are ready to take it to the next level. It is really not that hard to communicate these days. Flirt with her, show some affection, make her smile. The simplest things can go a long way. If a girl knows where your mind is at, she won’t be concerned with why you aren’t contacting her.
Goodluck!!! Sorry to put you male bugs on blast, but I told you I would give you a clue! ;o) Leave me some feedback. Lemme know if you agree or disagree. Ladies, post some of your craziest Bug-A-Boo stories.
LOL. Orkin man can bugaboo me!
Don’t really agree with a lot of this article =(.
“Communicate with her every couple or triple of days until you are ready to take it to the next level.”
I don’t think people should play games or expect people to. if i want to call a girl i’m calling it’s that simple. i will never play the “oh she texted should i wait two days to respond?” bs.
i don’t think there’s a universal “right way”. (yes, guys should be confident, respectful, and most importantly authentic) but this article seems more of one’s personal preference and maybe venting some issues from past guys. the way the article sounds right now is sort of putting the girl on a pedestal; saying how the guy needs to cater to all these needs of the girl and that it’s the guy’s fault that he isn’t getting the girl; yeah i know this is just directed towards guys, but no guy who blows up a girls mailbox or email will think that they are doing so
let me emphasize that i’m not saying what is written here is wrong, i’m just saying it’s not always right. it’s generally good advice but just i really disagree with the whole “do this then do that” advice.
Speak of the damn devil, the bug-a-boo just texted me. Get like Michael and LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!
Its stated that Girls take the cake for this issue, but that GUYS do it too and so this post was directed towards guys who actually are “bugs.” Its interesting that a guy (and girl) would NOT realize if he was blowing up a girl’s email, phone etc. AND… I agree with you about not playing the “text and wait two days BS”… the every couple of days statement was simply to put out there that a guy should not have to call every day….
Im really feeling the arguments posed in the article along with the feedback. I definitely agree on not playing games and so does JustB but unfortunately their are so many men in the A who don’t think like Danny. I truly think the BugaBoo concept derives from people (in general) with a lack of swag or confidence.
They definitely feel like this can get them a mate but all it is is embarrassing on both male and female perspectives. I say, stay true and confident in yourself, and if you can’t, see a therapist to find out what’s your underlying issue or consult me and I will be real with you, even if it hurts your damn feelings *Smoochez*